Did God try to kill Moses or his son Gershom, and why?

One of the Torah’s most baffling episodes, which clashes with modern cultural sensibilities, unfolds in Exodus 4:24-26. Here, right after commissioning Moses to lead the Israelites out of Egypt, God unexpectedly tried to kill him. What follows is a cryptic scene involving Zipporah, Moses and one of their sons and their Holy God.

The story and its ambiguity

וַיְהִי בַדֶּרֶךְ בַּמָּלוֹן וַיִּפְגְּשֵׁהוּ יְהוָה וַיְבַקֵּשׁ הֲמִיתוֹ

It happened on the way at the lodging place that YHWH met him and sought to cause his death (וַיְבַקֵּשׁ הֲמִיתוֹ; vay’vakkesh hamito).

וַתִּקַּח צִפֹּרָה צֹר וַתִּכְרֹת אֵת עָרְלַת בְּנָהּ וַתַּגַּע לְרַגְלָיו וַתֹּאמֶר כִּי חֲתַן-דָּמִים אַתָּה לִי

Then Zipporah took a flint (צֹר; tzor) and cut off her son’s foreskin and touched his feet (וַתַּגַּע לְרַגְלָיו; vataga l’raglav), and she said, “Indeed, a bridegroom of blood you are to me! (חֲתַן-דָּמִים אַתָּה לִי; khatan damim ata li)”

וַיִּרֶף מִמֶּנּוּ אָז אָמְרָה חֲתַן-דָּמִים לַמּוּלֹת  

So He relented from him. At that time, she said, “A bridegroom of blood,” because of the circumcision. (Ex 4:24-26)

Sometimes the Torah is too terse resulting in ambiguity. This text is no exception. While this lack of explanatory information may in fact be intentional, it frequently creates frustration among Bible interpreters.

You should always keep in mind that if you stumble on something weird in the Bible (that does not make any sense), it is probably extraordinarily important. In other words, the weirdness of any text may be there to call your attention to it, encouraging you not to move on, but to dwell on this text longer.

From our terse text (Ex 4:24-26) it is not even clear that God sought the death of Moses. It may very well be that He sought to take the life of Moses’ son instead. The son’s name is not specified, but the most-likely candidate is Gershom (Ex 2:22). Second son Eliezer appears only later in the narrative (Ex 18:3). But why we would even allow for the possibility of God threating/seeking to cause the death not of Moses, but of his son? Short answer is context.

Immediate Before and After Context

Whenever we seek to understand Biblical texts, especially one as notoriously difficult, we must take the time to examine what happens immediately before and after to see how the text fits its context. It turns out that both the preceding and following texts involve God’s firstborn son—Israel. This is significant because Gershom, whom Zipporah circumcises, is the firstborn of Moses and Zipporah.

We read in the text that comes immediately before as God instructs Moses about his coming up meeting with the Pharaoh of Egypt:

²² Then you shall say to Pharaoh, ‘This is what the Lord says: “Israel is My son, My firstborn. ²³ So I said to you, ‘Let My son go so that he may serve Me’; but you have refused to let him go. Behold, I am going to kill your son, your firstborn.”’ (Ex 4:22-23)

The text that follows our enigmatic passage affirms that Moses’ God is deeply concerned about the children of Israel (Ex 4:27-31).

If it is true that God sought the death of Moses’ son, than the earlier threat of taking the firstborn son of Pharaoh, would now apply to the firstborn son of disobedient Moses as well.

Now that we see the immediate context, we are ready to seriously consider what transpires in the text sandwiched between the two passages just quoted.

The Elephant in the Room

Zipporah resolves the situation by circumcising her son and then touching Moses with the bloody piece of Gershom’s foreskin, declaring that after her action Moses finally became the “bridegroom of blood to her”. It is most logical to assume that neither Gershom nor Moses were circumcised in accordance with covenant demands of Israel’s God. Later in the Book of Joshua the same situation repeats itself with whole new generation of the sons of Israel. A second nationwide circumcision needed to be performed. (Josh 5:2-7)     

But you may ask how could Gershom first born son of Moses and Moses himself not have been circumcised? Several possibilities exist, but in Moses’ case, the most logical explanation is that he considered himself already circumcised. Raised in Pharaoh’s palace, Moses grew up as an Egyptian prince, surrounded by a culture where the male members of the elites were circumcised. However, his circumcision was not performed as a covenant with the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, but rather in accordance with Egyptian circumcision practice.

It is plausible that Zipporah and Moses disagreed on this matter. Zipporah may have believed that Moses should have been properly circumcised long ago, while Moses held a different view. Alternatively, Zipporah might have been aware of Moses’ desire to be circumcised correctly but knew he had been procrastinating on this important issue. Either way, Zipporah seemed to know exactly what needed to be done to avert tragedy.

To us the modern (mostly Christian) readers) this emphasis on circumcision may sound misplaced. Why would God care so much about a physical mark? But for YHWH, circumcision was non-negotiable. It was the sign of the Abrahamic covenant for all Israelites (Genesis 17:10-14).

One important thing to remember is that the reason the penis was circumcised, and not the nose or fingers, for example, is because not only the man, but also his posterity and future belonged to God. Obviously only males got the physical sign, but it was also important for the wives, so that they would know that their households would surely belong to the LORD.

To be uncircumcised—or improperly circumcised—was to stand outside that covenant, a serious breach for any Israelite, let alone the leader of the Exodus. Moses was about to spearhead “Operation Exodus,” the greatest act of divine deliverance in Israel’s history. Yet probably he and certainly his first-born son Gershom lacked the all-important covenantal sign. This wasn’t a minor oversight. It was a serious disqualification to his fitness as God’s chosen emissary.

Zipporah’s Intervention

Enter Zipporah, Moses’ Midianite wife, who emerges as the unsung hero of this drama. When God confronts Moses with deadly intent (וַיְבַקֵּשׁ הֲמִיתוֹ, vay’vaqqesh hamito), Zipporah acts swiftly. Grabbing a knife made out of stone, she cuts off her son’s foreskin, and with it she touches Moses’ feet (וַתַּגַּע לְרַגְלָיו, vattaga l’raglav). Then she utters her enigmatic words: “Surely you are a bridegroom of blood to me” (כִּי חֲתַן-דָּמִים אַתָּה לִי, ki chatan-damim atah li). Immediately, God relents, and Moses is spared.

What’s going on here? Let’s unpack it step by step.

First, she clearly knows that this has to do with circumcision. Otherwise, she would not be able to act so quickly to remedy the situation. By circumcising Gershom, she addresses the covenantal failure in her husband. But why touch the foreskin to Moses’ “feet”? The Hebrew word רַגְלָיו (raglav, “feet”) is often a euphemism for the male reproductive organ in the Hebrew Bible (see, for example, Ruth 3:7 or Isaiah 7:20). It’s likely that Zipporah, after circumcising Gershom symbolically transfered Gershom’s circumcision to Moses. In doing so, she declared Moses to be in the right standing with God, as if he himself bore the proper sign.

We can’t be sure of every detail in this event. After all Moses might have been circumcised but neglected to circumcise his son. In this scenario Zipporah may have performed the circumcision of Gershom and credited Moses with doing the job he was supposed to have done. But this brings us to her words: “bridegroom of blood to me.” The Hebrew phrase חֲתַן-דָּמִים (chatan-damim) is striking. A חֲתַן (chatan) is a bridegroom, and דָּמִים (damim) refers to blood. Zipporah’s declaration suggests that circumcision isn’t just important sign between God and a male participant. It’s also a sign that reverberates through the marriage relationship and, therefore, has relevance to the woman as well. For a woman like Zipporah, marrying a man of the covenant with YHVH meant marrying someone marked by this bloody rite we call circumcision. (Rituals involving blood were well known in the Bible times and as was the case with Passover sacrifice, they were salvific in nature). A properly circumcised man was a “bridegroom of blood” to his bride, proof that he worshiped the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. By performing the circumcision and touching Moses’ “feet,” Zipporah symbolically restores Moses to covenantal faithfulness, ensuring that he’s a true “bridegroom of (covenantal) blood” to her.

Higher Standard

God could tolerate an uncircumcised Israel for a time—they were, after all, slaves in Egypt, but Moses, the leader of the great exodus, who would soon speak before Pharaoh representing YHVH, had to answer to a higher standard.

Let us illustrate. In the New Testament, several passages outline qualifications for the role of an elder (servant leader) in a local congregation. At a time when polygamy was a widely accepted cultural norm, an elder in a Christ-following congregation was required to be married to only one woman (the husband of one wife). Although polygamy was not explicitly forbidden for all believers, church elders were held to a higher standard, reflecting the original monogamous relationship between Adam and Eve. (1 Tim 3:2; Titus 1:6)

The qualifications for elders in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 emphasize exemplary character (“above reproach”), suggesting that elders were to model the highest ethical and spiritual standards. By requiring monogamy, the early church ensured that its leaders reflected the biblical ideal of marriage, even in cultures where polygamy was acceptable. This higher standard aligned with the church’s mission to distinguish itself from surrounding cultural practices and to embody God’s design for human relationships.

Conclusion  

Exodus 4:24-26, though cryptic, unveils a timeless truth: God’s covenant demands unwavering commitment, igniting inspiration for us today. Circumcision was no mere ritual but a sacred bond uniting Israel to God. Zipporah’s courageous act—circumcising her son and symbolically restoring Moses to the covenant—transformed a moment of divine judgment into redemption, mirroring the Passover’s saving blood. As a Midianite, daughter of priest Jethro, she became a beacon of faith, securing Moses’ mission to lead Israel to freedom. Her story calls us to rise above fear and cultural norms, embracing God’s call with bold obedience. Like Zipporah, we can wield faith as a flint, cutting through doubt to align with divine purpose. Her legacy inspires us to act decisively, trusting that our faithfulness can spark transformation, bridge heaven and earth, and carry forward God’s redemptive plan for the world.